the manufacturer's manual says: "Bring them up in the nurture and admonition." How we raise, feed and provide for our children? In the discipline and .......
The word translated as discipline in this passage is, in Greek, paideia can also be translated as "education, training, instruction" means instruction that takes place through action.
denotes the training given to a child, including instruction, hence, discipline, correction, suggesting the Christian discipline that regulates character. (1)
Our children need to be taught by example, through persevering practice principles, through the correction and adjustment of the principles previously taught. We can not discipline a child when you have failed if we have not previously taught, if we have not sufficiently trained.
The Greek word for caution is nouthesia, and may be translated as a warning, instruction and training, the instruction is done through word of encouragement or rebuke.
This warning precedes the problem is a warning, a word of affirmation to help the child reach their potential. A father who rebukes and discipline without being warned in time, without taking the time to teach and train, is foolish.
However, we understood that our obligation is to raise feed and care for our children, keep them as they grow, praying that will soon reach the age of majority to get rid of them.
In the process, take a passive attitude, letting go, letting go, not correct, ignore, play down the facts and attitudes. We do not realize that raising our children in this way is simply to leave them exposed to be killed by Satan.
During my childhood we lived near a trail where farmers brought their animals to be sacrificed in order to then sell the meat on the market. I have never forgotten the screams of the pigs to walk down the street dragged by their owners to the slaughter.
seemed that somehow the pigs knew what awaited them and shrieked in despair. Of course they did not understand that that had been raised and for that had fed.
The bigger and fatter valuable they were.
The comparison is crude, but this is what many parents do with their children. The food, in many cases literally fat, keep them as they grow, give them a place to live, but lets them roam wherever they want. No restrictions are placed, they fulfill their whims, basically ignored. They are too busy with other things.
the end, what happens is that these children are ripped from the world and the devil. Signs
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Let me give you a list of warning signs that can help you identify if your child is growing the wrong way:
At home:
• Your child can not stand still. You can not leave anything within reach and you can not get away from it without being very concerned because he takes things without asking, break his toys or not collected after play. He just wants to play and not do their homework.
• There is excessive noise in the house, screaming, hitting, music.
• Frequently says he is bored, he is not happy.
In respect to his mother,
• It is rude and hits, from small little hand lifted to hit mom to pull her hair or earrings, causing great pain. He yells, demands, sends. In
Obedience to authority:
• Your child complains, cries and throws tantrums when you say: "No!". He refuses to eat or do whatever you ask. Do not go when you call. You have to explain why when you ask something. Avoid doing what you ask using excuses, excuses and babblings. When you beat him he gets mad, screams, pulled to the ground, slams the door, aims to vomit.
In store:
• It is horrible to go shopping with him. Tantrum if he does not buy what he wants. In other houses
:
• I'm embarrassed to take another house, because it is sure to cause havoc. The church
:
• The child can not still during the service. You have to go out and walk him or take him to the bathroom many times it does not really benefit much from the sermon.
In public:
• You feel that you have to explain to others when the child does not let you do what you want or ignores you when you speak.
• You stop when you talk to other people.
• Often have to apologize for his behavior.
At your disposal for help:
• You prefer not to ask for help because you know that your negative attitude will not help you. It just will ignore and continue doing what he was doing.
Notes 1. WE Vine, Vine Expository Dictionary of Old and New Testament Exhaustive. Editorial Caribe: Nashville, TN, 1999, v. , P. 285; v. , P. 53.
Author: Jairo Delgado Carbajal
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